Lazy to answer all the questions la.. Leng Tzi my TARCollege Friend. He love to watch anime.. definitely watch more than I do. Unlikely to become my enemy since he's such a nice person. His favourite stuff.. No idea.. Lazy to tell you guys more of me.. Just some slacker who has so much time to blog even though I have 3-4 assignments due next week. Well, I'm being nice now, so I dun wanna tag anyone else..
P.S. AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!! (just wanna destress a bit =D )
Thursday, November 6, 2008
Saturday, November 1, 2008
Fragile Friendship
After months of not posting anything up to my blog due to laziness even WHILE in UK, after breaking all the promises that I had give to all my friends who had followed my blog from time to time.. I'm blogging now.. of an event so meaningful that I really should remind myself from seconds to seconds.
First of all, would like to apologize for my laziness of updating my blog from time to time. Just drop by whenever you feel like it and hopefully I would have posted a few posts.
What happened? Is it a good event? or a bad event? It all started when it was time to cook. A simple DISCUSSION ( I still think it was a discussion), but I was terribly wrong when I raised my voice without noticing. It was total silence after seconds...... as in ........................................
I had hurt someone's feeling without noticing and worse.. without apologizing.. cause I still think I was right in defending my opinion.
The next day is the most torturing part.. our friendship was never the same anymore. I tried to communicate with him, but everytime I sense a wall higher than the sky placed between the 2 of us. I tried to be act like I used to, mana tahu (who knows) I keep getting one-word reply with that look on his face. It seems as though he wants me to move 10m away from him. As last, I cannot bear the tension and just walk away and 'hide at my safe corner' and be EMO.
The truth is, I'm sorry if I really hurt ur feelings. It was only about such a trivial thing over cooking and yet it can affect our long friendship so much. I don't like that!! I don't want that to happen, yet it happened. No excuses should be given for why I apologize over the internet blog and not face to face, probably it's because I dunno how to start talking to you about that particular incident. It was trivial and should be forgotten overnight and yet.. and yet.. oh well.. LESSON learned.. that's all I can say.
Important lessons:
People's feeling are very fragile, DON'T ever.. DON'T EVER raise ur voice when you're talking to someone no matter what is the situation (not even when u wanna scold someone), coz u'll never know when u'll break certain people's feelings.
First of all, would like to apologize for my laziness of updating my blog from time to time. Just drop by whenever you feel like it and hopefully I would have posted a few posts.
What happened? Is it a good event? or a bad event? It all started when it was time to cook. A simple DISCUSSION ( I still think it was a discussion), but I was terribly wrong when I raised my voice without noticing. It was total silence after seconds...... as in ........................................
I had hurt someone's feeling without noticing and worse.. without apologizing.. cause I still think I was right in defending my opinion.
The next day is the most torturing part.. our friendship was never the same anymore. I tried to communicate with him, but everytime I sense a wall higher than the sky placed between the 2 of us. I tried to be act like I used to, mana tahu (who knows) I keep getting one-word reply with that look on his face. It seems as though he wants me to move 10m away from him. As last, I cannot bear the tension and just walk away and 'hide at my safe corner' and be EMO.
The truth is, I'm sorry if I really hurt ur feelings. It was only about such a trivial thing over cooking and yet it can affect our long friendship so much. I don't like that!! I don't want that to happen, yet it happened. No excuses should be given for why I apologize over the internet blog and not face to face, probably it's because I dunno how to start talking to you about that particular incident. It was trivial and should be forgotten overnight and yet.. and yet.. oh well.. LESSON learned.. that's all I can say.
Important lessons:
People's feeling are very fragile, DON'T ever.. DON'T EVER raise ur voice when you're talking to someone no matter what is the situation (not even when u wanna scold someone), coz u'll never know when u'll break certain people's feelings.
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